One of the great memories from my youth is having a back garden campfire with a large group of friends. The fire burned and crackled into the early hours and we sang along to the entire Queen album ‘It’s a Kind of Magic.’ I’m not sure we cooked anything though undoubtedly we drank..
The best campfires live long in the imagination and are a great way to create magical moments for our kids (now our own partying days may be somewhat diminished.)
How To Light A Fire
Fire lighting is simple in itself but even the most experienced of us struggle at times. There are a zillion tutorials online so here’s my simple version and then it’s over to you – the best way to learn is to practice.
Even a fairy fire must be laid correctly..
You Will Need: –
HEAT
Matches or a fire lighter/flint of some kind
OXYGEN
Fresh air!
FUEL
Kindling – small, dry twigs, sticks or other easily flammable material
Starter wood – medium sized sticks that will catch easily from the kindling
Logs/larger wood – big pieces that will burn long and hot to keep the fire going
Sizing the wood
Tipi, Log Cabin or Platform Style Fire?
There are many ways to lay the wood for a fire (which I won’t go into here) whether it’s in a grate indoors or outside on the ground or in a firepit or a washing machine drum – learn how to make one here; make a firepit from a washing machine drum.
My best advice is to practice different ways and see which works best for you. The below tips will make for easy firelighting ,whichever style of fire you choose to build.
What To Do
- Place kindling at the bottom. It ignites quickly and easily but burns out fast
- Stack starter wood over the kindling. It needs to be small and dry to catch quickly. Stack to allow air to the flames. This can be in a tipi shape, a criss-cross log cabin shape or as a platform. Experiment and use your favourite.
- Place larger logs around the edge to add once the starter wood is burning, allowing them to dry beforehand. They should catch and burn slowly, keeping the fire alight
- Light the kindling. You may need a fire starter to help the kindling catch. You can buy these but they give a chemical taste if used for cooking and give off smelly fumes. The best way is to make your own (see below).

Why not try a campfire in the snow? Read snow fires and night sledging to get inspired.
Fire Starters
For some ingenious ideas on making natural and recycled fire starters check out Cool of the Wild‘s excellent post homemade firestarters. My favourite, below, uses tumble dryer lint, egg boxes and melted wax crayons. It’s a real must-read article.

No matches?
To try firelighting without any matches, as in the recent Swallows And Amazons DVD, check out this article by the excellent Family Adventure Project.
More Reading
My own post on survival techniques for kids shows how to create kindling embers using sticks. Keeps the kids entertained on any campfire adventure.
For more campfire information see also ritual Christmas tree burning, how to make a firepit and garden cookfires.
However you light your fire, have a great time and STAY SAFE.
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That’s so interesting. I grew up with coal fires in my bedroom and living room, and of course campfires at brownies and scout camps, and I knew how to light fires from a young age. I’m certain my children won’t have a clue because there’s just no need; something that probably I’ll need to address at some point because it’s such a useful skill.
These are some fab tips for lighting campfires, I can tell you guys enjoy doing it regularly. My kids are all pretty good at setting up a campfire now and ask if we can get some marshmallows and go build a fire. This is definitely a great survival skill, I bet your kids are proud they know how to do it.
Thanks for linking up with me on #CountryKids.
I had no idea you can make your own firelighters – going to check that out right away! We often try and use a firesteel (with matches as backup) since learning how to use it on a bushcraft day. Kids love lighting a fire, whether at home or outdoors. Such a useful skill to have!
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Lots of great tips here. We swear by our fire steel…so reliable 🙂 #countrykidsfun
Great post. My husband always takes responsibility for the fire when we’re camping and takes it very seriously! I tend to ruin it, but great tips here, I’ll be following for our next trip! #CountryKids
Sounds like you had a fantastic childhood. Queen’s music is fantastic. My hubby is a bit of a pyromaniac so I’ll happily sit back and let him light the fires, #CountryKids